Feeling Discriminated Against

Discrimination – whether based on race, gender, age, disability, sexuality, or other aspects of identity – can cause deep harm. Beyond the immediate impact, it can affect confidence, mental health, and a sense of safety in social or professional environments. Recognising your worth and seeking support is essential.

What It Feels Like

Experiencing discrimination may bring:

• Emotional: anger, sadness, shame, or helplessness
• Relational: distrust in relationships or workplaces
• Mental: anxiety, hypervigilance, or loss of confidence
• Physical: stress symptoms such as headaches, fatigue, or disrupted sleep

Everyday Tools & Practical Tips

• Document incidents: keep a record of discriminatory behaviours if safe to do so.
• Seek allies: connect with supportive colleagues, friends, or networks.
• Self-care: prioritise activities that restore confidence and calm.
• Boundaries: protect yourself from harmful environments where possible.
• Advocacy: access workplace policies or external organisations that promote fairness.

Longer-Term Approaches

• Therapy: counselling can help process trauma, build resilience, and restore confidence.
• Community: connect with identity-based groups for solidarity and support.
• Workplace action: consider HR processes, mediation, or staff networks.
• Growth: affirm your worth by investing in passions and goals outside the discriminatory environment.
• EAP: Wellbeing Solutions’ EAP provides confidential support for employees experiencing discrimination.

When to Seek Professional Help

• Discrimination significantly impacts mental or physical health
• You feel unsafe, silenced, or unable to cope alone
• Trauma or stress persists long after the incidents

Moving Forward

Discrimination is never acceptable. By seeking support, building resilience, and connecting with safe and affirming environments, you can protect your wellbeing and reaffirm your worth.