Confidence & Self-Worth
Building Self-Worth & Resilience
Self-worth is the belief that you are valuable regardless of external achievements. Resilience is the ability to recover and adapt in the face of challenges. Together, they provide a foundation for confidence and wellbeing at work. Strengthening self-worth and resilience helps employees thrive even during times of stress or uncertainty.
What It Feels Like
When self-worth and resilience are low, you may notice:
- Emotional: feelings of inadequacy, discouragement, or hopelessness
- Mental: persistent self-criticism or difficulty handling setbacks
- Social: reluctance to connect with colleagues due to low confidence
- Professional: avoidance of challenges or reluctance to take initiative
Everyday Tools & Practical Tips
Ways to build self-worth and resilience:
- Positive self-talk: challenge negative inner dialogue with realistic affirmations.
- Small wins: celebrate incremental progress to reinforce capability.
- Boundaries: protect energy by managing workload and saying no when needed.
- Healthy routines: maintain regular exercise, nutrition, and sleep.
- Support networks: connect with colleagues, friends, or mentors for encouragement.
Longer-Term Approaches
Sustaining self-worth and resilience:
- Growth mindset: reframe setbacks as opportunities to learn and grow.
- Journalling: reflect on strengths, achievements, and lessons from challenges.
- Skills development: build competence and confidence through ongoing learning.
- Balance: invest in personal life as well as professional goals.
- EAP: Wellbeing Solutions’ EAP offers confidential support to strengthen resilience and self-worth.
Moving Forward
Self-worth and resilience take time to build, but both can be strengthened through intentional habits and support. By recognising your value and practicing tools that support recovery, you can navigate challenges with greater confidence and balance.
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